My Ebenezer


Excuse me, Your Honor?
June 26, 2008, 1:46 am
Filed under: Adoption Process

So court was good today. Can’t give too many details, but here’s what I can tell you:

Birthparents will be offered services. It was explained to me that this will only strengthen the state’s case against them when it comes to the trial for termination. I am happy with this.

Visits are scheduled every other week for two hours. BUT, birthparents must take a drug test the morning of the visit and will only be allowed to visit baby Isaac if the results are negative. They will also be subjected to random drug testing. The Judge was very clear to point out that if they do not appear within four hours of the request for a drug screen, it is considered negative. Also, if there is anything that looks like they tried to “cleanse” their system, it will also be considered negative.

It is my guess that visits will not actually occur – at least not very often.

I kept my mouth shut in court but I wanted to speak up several times and yell BULLSH$T! Because they answered a question with something I knew was a lie. It made me so sad for them.

I am very happy with the case worker who is taking the case from investigation and know that she will be thorough.

Yay, God.


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Woot! Are they back over there or still over here?

Have you talked to the grandparents lately? How are they?

I’m still scanning the paper for you and will let you know if/when I find any kind of announcement in the local rag -

Comment by Judy

Ugh – the dreaded “v-word”. Visits. I’m SO glad that they have to test prior. I’m SO glad that someone has their head on straight in the dad-burn system. And I’m SO glad your baby boy is home. Yay God, indeed!

Comment by Tamara

Sounds like a lot of hassle for them which can only be good at this point. Glad it went well and you’re happy with the case worker. God is so good!

Comment by Debbie

Sounds good! Hopefully, if they’re going to screw up, they do it quickly so you guys don’t have to deal with the hassle. From reading your posts it seems inevitable that they will mess up.

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