My Ebenezer


Is it a sign?
January 31, 2006, 10:54 pm
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We often look for “signs” in life to let us know if we are on the right track, right? I mean, tell me I’m not the only one who does that! I think, in reality, we look for signs that help us justify what we’re already doing (or not doing). We see things that substantiate what we already believe to be true. Following me here?

Well, I guess that’s what I’m doing now and while I hate to get your hopes up again……… LOL, isn’t it funny that I worry about getting your hopes up? I mean, I’m not even sure who “you” is. ha

I got a call from M today and she had some very interesting news. The siblings, who I am now calling Sonny and Cher (sorry, Karen), have a four-way date set. Probably on February 14. We may or may not be included in that four way and M was waiting for final confirmation before calling me but still hadn’t gotten it. Here’s where it gets interesting.

On Thursday of last week, the case worker for Sonny and Cher called M and wanted her to go down to the CPS office and take them a copy of our scrapbook pages. They liked our homestudy and wanted to see photos. M said they really liked everything they saw and that she really thought we were going to the four way but she had not yet recieved the official notification. This is the first time she has been asked to present our photos prior to the actual four-way.

Why am I going on and on about all of this? Because I have come to the conclusion that the CPS workers choose the family they want to match with the child(ren) before the four-way ever occurs. The four way is mostly a formality and they already know who they want, but have to consider the others. THE “SIGN” is that they wanted to see our information before the four way. That “SIGN” makes me think this could really be it. They really want us to be matched with Sonny and Cher.

I know I’m reaching here but hey, I can’t help it. We may not even be going to the four way and I’ve already decided these are our kids. Perhaps you are wondering how I feel about that? How do I feel about becoming parents to a 1 yr old and a 2 yr old overnight? I can describe it for you in one simple word: FEAR LOL

So what do you think? I think it would be fun take bets or something. Who here thinks this means we are definitely going to the four way? Who here thinks it means we are being matched with these kids? And, finally, who here thinks I’ve gone completely insane? My vote is on the last one! LOL


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Well, you already are completely insane. But that’s beyond the point. I think you’ve got a good sign that you might be chosen and you may be right about the four way might be a formality. I live in the same state and have never heard of a four-way because they don’t do them in the county I’m in. But you do know that this may be a more frequent accurance pf no more four-ways though since CPS is being downsized into privitization. Good luck. As always, let us know as soon as you hear anything.

Comment by WyldJoker

I’ve never heard of a 4-way either, and in fact the first time you wrote it I was like “whoa Cindy – that’s pretty racy stuff” – of course, then I figured out what you were talking about! BWAHAHA. Okay, seriously I agree this is a great sign. I would so LOVE to see you all get 2 at once and write about the great adventure. Plus, you’d get a boy AND a girl to love on. How awesome would that be!

Comment by Tamara

Ok, I’m as crazy as you, but I think it’s a sign!! I think these are your kids. That’s certainly how it worked for me.

And hope feels so much better than that boring waiting. Enjoy! Dance around! I wish I could jump around with you!!

Comment by Sunshine

My bet is to not bet because I’m a believer in jinxing. Not really a believer, but my overthinking process often gets to that point. :) But the feeling is good!

By the way–what’s wrong with Frankie & Annette or something? lol

Comment by Karen

My hope is high for a family of four!

Comment by Lori

hey look at it this way, if you start out with two, you will never know what having just one child is like, sooooooo “it” will be normal to you! it’s like having twins first, you never knew what it was like get one child ready, you’ve always had two! so i think it will be fine! and if i may voice my opinion… you did want a sibbling group to begin with, but would have “setteled” for one! i am so excited that YOU said these are YOUR kids! i love you so very much and am so glad to be sharing this journey with you even if it is just on the computer.mel-

Comment by melony

Don’t you think it’s kinda weird naming siblings after a couple that was married? If you’re going for retro pairs, what about Donny and Marie?

As far as the “bet”, I have no idea, butI am ready to paint the nursery on the 14th if I need too! :)

Comment by Brigitte

I do think it’s interesting… There’s no harm in postulating, right? I mean, if you’re not chosen, at least you had fun hoping??? Or does it get to the point where even the hoping hurts?

I don’t know, but it’s sure interesting to read about.

Comment by Nancy

Cindy,
Nope you are not crazy, and I have done the exact same thing. I hope those are your kids that are waiting on you. I think it would be neat to get a sibling group. You never know, since they already wanted to see pictures.

Comment by Nicole

wyldjoker, I hear it runs in the family…………

Tam, LOL! You crack me up. I’m just glad they aren’t referred to as 3 ways.

Sun, still dancing and excited over all the opportunities at hand.

Karen, i think you jinxed me.

Lori, family of four sounds wierd. How crazy would that BE?

Mel, how right you are. it is what we’ve been hoping for.

Brigitte, I’ll hold you to that.

Nancy, I think hope is what gets through. There is muchjoy in hoping.

Nicole, thanks for the sanity vote!

Comment by ciNdy

Hey, I change my vote. I am sure you will get chosen for the four way. What do I win if my bet is right????

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